Listening to the Partners of Pro Dommes

Intimate conversations with the partners of professional dominatrices

Listening to the Partners of Pro Dommes looks at the lived experience of folks in relationships with women who work as professional Femdoms. Focused on the partners’ point of view, the book examines what it means to build a life with someone whose work unsettles conventional ideas about intimacy, gender and power. It follows what these partners value, what they struggle with, and how their relationships are shaped, tested, and sustained over time.

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Synopsis

Listening to the Partners of Pro-Dommes is a narrative nonfiction project built from long-form recorded conversations with twelve partners of professional dominatrices. Shaped into interview-form narratives (one for each partner), the book explores the intimate, social, and emotional dynamics of their relationships and how they are shaped by this type of sex work.
Their stories look at questions of stigma, gender, monogamy, power, labor and love across a range of relationship structures and life circumstances. Together, they offer a rare view into a set of experiences that seldom get talked about.

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Authors & publishing

Emme Roseloux

Emme Roseloux (a pseudonym) has nearly fifteen years of experience as a professional dominatrix in the United States and internationally. She holds two master’s degrees and is also a licensed healthcare provider.

Ruby Fella

Ruby Fella (pseudonym) has a professional background in Sexological Bodywork, is a longtime collaborator of Emme Roseloux, and now works as a sex educator while also remaining involved in sex work advocacy.

_{Emme Roseloux and Ruby Fella are pseudonyms used for privacy and safety. We are not linking to our work outside this project in order to protect our respective practices and the privacy of those interviewed for the book.}

Publishing

The manuscript is currently in its final stages of preparation.

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